“Honor your father and mother, and love your neighbor as yourself.” Matthew 19:19
At the heart of Jesus’ miracle at the Wedding at Cana lies a profound demonstration of honor toward His mother, Mary. This event is not merely a narrative about turning water into wine but an emblematic act showcasing the essence of Exodus 20:12. Here, Jesus exemplifies how one should regard not just a biological parent but any spiritual guardian with respect and reverence. His decision to perform his first public miracle underlines this commandment’s weight, revealing how deeply Jesus values family and spiritual ties.
In a society governed by stringent protocols, Jesus’ choice to heed his mother’s concern for the newlyweds’ predicament was unconventional. It is an analogy to the shepherd who leaves his flock to find one lost sheep. Just as the shepherd prioritizes that single life over the ninety-nine left in the wilderness, Jesus places exceptional value on individual needs and relationships. By responding to Mary’s nudge, despite not being His hour, He teaches us the beauty of breaking protocol out of love and honor.
Mark 7:10 says, “For Moses said, ‘Honor your father and your mother’ and ‘Anyone who curses his father or mother must be put to death.”
The story itself acts as a powerful teaching devotional on several layers. It reminds us that Jesus honored His earthly parent, setting an example for how we are called to revere our own parents—both biological and spiritual. Such respect isn’t rooted in flawless adherence to tradition but grounded in love, understanding, and sometimes going beyond conventional norms to uphold dignity and honor within relationships.
These narrative urges those who walk in faith to look beyond obligations or societal norms when honoring parents or guardians. Let it be a call for believers to actively seek ways—big or small—to show appreciation and respect towards those who guide them spiritually or have raised them, always remembering that such actions echo Jesus’ commitment to honoring relationships above protocol. Amen. Exodus 20:12 says, “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.” Amen.
Prayer for the day!
Oh, Almighty Father, I humbly beseech You to grant me the strength and wisdom to honor my parents and the elderly individuals in my life. Let Your grace guide me in showing them respect, love, and gratitude for all they have done and continue to do for me. May I always approach them with kindness, patience, and understanding, recognizing the value of their wisdom and experience. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
