Sustain Relationships! Part Five.

“Bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone else. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Colossians 3:13

Forgiveness is the key to a healthy relationship. It doesn’t matter who you must forgive as long as you do. When you are wronged, it is natural to feel anger and resentment. However, if you want to sustain your relationships, you must find a way to forgive. Forgiveness is not easy, but it is worth the effort. Ephesians 4:32 says, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” We Christians are called to forgive others as God has forgiven us.

When we mess up, we need to be quick to forgive. Holding on to grudges will only hurt us in the end. Instead, forgive and forget, so you can continue to move forward. Forgiveness is one of the most important things you can do for your relationship. It can heal wounds and help to keep the relationship strong. When you forgive, you are forgiving both yourself and your partner. It is not always easy, but it is worth the effort.

Proverbs 19:11 says, “Sensible people control their temper; they earn respect by overlooking wrongs.”

Forgiveness does not mean you forget what happened or condone what your partner did. It simply means you are willing to let go of the anger and resentment and move on. This can be difficult but worth it in the long run. Proverbs 10:12 says, “Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses.” When you forgive, you are freeing yourself from the chains of anger and bitterness. You are also showing your partner that you love them enough to let go of the past and move on. Forgiveness is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Learning to forgive is the key to keeping those relationships healthy. Of course, forgiving someone isn’t always easy. But it’s worth the effort because holding on to anger can only hurt you in the long run. If you’re not sure whom to forgive, start with yourself. First, forgive yourself for any mistakes you’ve made, and then forgive others for what they’ve done to hurt you. Free yourself from the chains of past mistakes and set the stage for a more positive future. Forgiveness is not about the other person; it’s about you. It’s about letting go of the hurt and moving on. Amen. Proverbs 17:9 says, “Whoever covers an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates close friends.” Amen.

Prayer:
1. Lord Jesus, forgive me for my sins by not forgiving others who offended me.
2. Oh Lord, disappoint every evil plan arranged by the enemies against my loved ones and me: Every evil plan will not prosper in Jesus’ name. Amen.